Just curious. Too big of an age gap?
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I wouldn't. It's not the 14 years - it's the difference in where you are in your lives. I'm 46. A man 14 years older than me is likely getting ready to retire, while I'm in the prime of my career. A man 14 years younger is probably just approaching the age when he's ready to settle down, and that's been-there-done-that for me. I'm not saying I would not consider someone far from my own age, just that when I have gone out with guys who weren't close to me in age, what was important to us in our current stage of life made us incompatible.0