I always tell my female friends that money is not important, cars, houses, jobs are also not important at all, if you love a guys, nothing is important.
However, I found out myself really not interested with the guys without a good job, without cars etc. They don't have to be rich, but at least they have to try hard and be well educated and have a decent job. For those guys who said they "love" me, but they don't have a good job, I really don't find them interesting, although they may look very good. I need them to work hard and play hard, they need to be sincere to life.
Am I wrong?
- You are wrong. Only bitches think job is importantVote A
- You are not wrong, everybody should work hardVote B
Most Helpful Guy
It is normal to expect a mate to pull their weight. I know a girl who broke up with her fiance last year because he didn't put any effort out to help around the house or improve his job situation. He missed out - she was attractive, smart, ambitious and had a sweet personality.0
Most Helpful Girl
This is normal, you just have standards. I'm the same way, for example, I usually appreciate a potential partner more if he has some type of above average status or holds a decent job. I've wondered if this makes me shallow but I'm sure they'd want the same. You're fine, you just know what type of life/ partner is best for you. Personally, I want someone who can inspire me and motivate me to be the best person I can be. When a guy can't help me be a better person or inspire me I won't stay interested very long.0