A co worker used to sexually harass (or assault) me At Work. He's Hot. I was confused. I found out he wasn't doing it to anyone else but me. Always sneaking up behind me when he did things.
I was /am celibate. This was the most sexual contact I had in years. It would excite me to the point I masterbated when I got home.
But after a while I made a big deal about him stopping. He has a significant other, etc. And I was trying to be celibate.
He tapered off then eventually stopped. Then started on others which makes me jealous. Crazy, I know...
I have a significant other (long distance) in my life Now, but still have sexual feelings for the coworker. Its bothering me now. I've tried to let thing go that he did. But u remember them like yesterday.
Sometime I hang with him and Hope thing would happen. They didn't. But he still gets me excited.
I recently deleted him from facebook cause I check up on him too much. I didn't tell him y I did it.
It has help, but we still work together and still hang some. So not completely out of mind. Any helpful thoughts or suggestions will be appreciated.
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I've never seen the words "sexual assault" use in a positive manner.
An assault is never good and allows one to feel victimized.
Perhaps, different word usage would benefit this post since you enjoyed his actions.
I think you crave for sexual attention since it's what you are not getting.
Are you sure you want to be in a long distance relationship?
Why do you want to be celibate?
This is hard for you because you are fighting natural urges.
I think it's healthy for you to keep him out of your life and stop checking up on him.
Remember although you enjoy the attention giving in would go against your morals.
He also does this to various women.
He is in a relationship and has no respect for his girlfriend/wife.
You are worthy of much more.0