My boyfriend is really nasty to his mom and it makes me very uncomfortable, of course i've told him about it and he says he will try to avoid arguing with her in front of me but it still happens at times and i don't know how to deal with those situations. It's started to cause problems between us. How do you guys handle it?
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One of the first guys I dated was like that. Turns out he had a lot of pent up aggression towards his mother because he blamed her for his father's absence in his life. :/ It was like he was blaming her for procreating with that type of guy. That's not right. smh That wasn't her fault ya know it's not like he made it clear that he would not be supportive in his child's life.
I handled it by eventually moving on and not dating him anymore. I get that he had issues but constantly disrespecting his mom and tearing her down was a MAJOR turn-off. There were times where he would try to take the same tone with me and I wasn't having that! He had to go2