Most Helpful Girl
A guy doesn't always have to be sexual to turn me on.
It's the simple things that he can do that will make a difference in the way I perceive him and how much he arouses me.
-A thoughtful man (One that doesn't need to be told what to do, but just does them). ---When its my birthday, He never forgets it. Even if he cannot do something BIG for me , he can give me a birthday card or some flowers to show his appreciation for me.
Also, When I'm feeling down/frustrated he always makes himself available to listen to me.
Even when he doesn't know what to do say... he is my shoulder to lean on in my hard times.
-Someone that shows affection
(Hugs, kisses, holding my hand when we are walking the street) gets me every time.
-Always expresses his feelings about me.
(He compliments me, and tells me how much he loves me that makes me feel good).
-A man that smells good or is well groomed.
(Hes making an effort to be appealing)--that's a big turn on.
A lot of women aren't turned on by the act of sex itself... but more so the actions before the sex that gets us in the mood.
It is these every day things that count that people often forget that make a huge difference.2