Why don't women like when men think about they want to say?

Before I say something, I think about what I'm going to say. Why do women hate when I do that?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • I actually like that!

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    • Yeah but why would you hate something like that?

Most Helpful Guy

  • Because it makes you seem like your filtering your true self to keep from offending them or making yourself look bad.

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    • Isn't that the point though? To not say shit

    • They are interested in genuine you. Not filtered you. Filtered you might even scare them a bit, because you seem deceptive.

What Girls Said 4

  • What do you mean?
    If we're talking and you pause for a few seconds and think about what you're going to say every time you desk I would think you were mentally retarded

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  • It would probably seem insincere, like you're thinking of the best answer to suit her, rather than just saying what you immediately, honestly think.

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  • They may get impatient/bored by it if it's happening a lot. As long as the guy doesn't do it before literally every single one of his responses, then I think it can actually be a cute quirk because it shows that he's thoughtful.

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    • Why would it matter if it happened EVERY single time

    • Because I'd get impatient/bored. But if he's just doing it before questions or topics that actually require some thought, then I like that.

  • Maybe it seems less genuine if you have to think about it before speaking it.

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What Guys Said 1

  • You must think to long for them and they have no patience I guess

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