I am muslim and might be bi-curious but I dont do anything with the same sex. I pretend i am straight._. Is is still forbidden? I mean i can't help feeling so but how can i get rid of bi-curious thinking and fantasies?
Pls answer respectfully. Cheers xox
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OK listen to me carefully!
In islam, having fantasies or finding someone of the same gender sexually attractive is not sinful. Having sinful thoughts is not sinful but it depends on what you make of those thoughts and feelings.
Being attracted to other women is not sinful. Having sexual relations with another woman is sinful, and forbidden.
If you want to remain Muslim, then know that you have to ignore these feelings.
Even if it means living a life of celibacy.
Remember that sinning does not mean you are not a Muslim. We all sin, but what you have to do is repent sincerely to God for your actions.
And just because your might have these feelings it doesn't mean other Muslims should disrespect you or treat you indecently! They should help and support you.
If you need to know anything else just ask, but I wouldn't tell anyone of your feelings.1