I am depressed right now because a guy I accidently fell for just told me straight up he doesn't like me and he was just trying to use me. Then he proceeding to disrespect me (he call me worthless basically when he said I'm not even worth oxygen and such). I'm here crying wondering if every guy is like that or has any guys did the same thing this guy did to me to another girl and felt bad about it? I just want to feel better hoping there is a guy out there who feel bad for their mistakes.
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I sometimes feel bad for girls I can't help, even when they don't know me that well and I don't owe them a thing. When I realized things wouldn't work out with Annamae in the Philippines, I broke it off. But I did so as respectably as possible. And agonized over it for almost two years. Part of why I was so patient with my one abusive ex is because part of me felt I deserved it for crushing Annamae's hopes, even though I wasn't mean-spirited.
That's the one problem with having super-high morals: it only takes a little despair, and you fall hard.0