People tell me i'm pretty (i don't believe them). Lots of guys like me. But yet i absolutely hate how i look. I'm so self conscious i have to always look in a mirror to see if i look okay or not, and i'm never happy with what i see. I feel like i have to always look perfect and even then it's not good enough. If a guy was staring at me trying to flirt, i just can't keep eye contact because i think i look terrible, and he would be repulsed. I probably wouldn't be able to keep a relationship going cause i would just keep thinking he must think i look awful.
I'm not looking for advice on how i look because it doesn't seem to help. I just want to know if anyone else feels the same.
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I've been able to relate. in the end, how u think of yourself makes the biggest difference. thing is, we will never look 'perfect' no one is capable of that. and u know, say someone looks amazing, maybe they have something missing in their life.
everyone has something they're insecure about or unhappy with. we just need to come to terms with our flaws and befriend them i guess. once u can get to this stage, you will be able to love yourself more. if u r able to control aspects of ur look such as weight or hairstyle then go for it! if not, acceptance. that's the key hun =]1