I have two immediate girl cousins as in, my dad and moms sisters kids. When I was younger, I of course only thought of her as a cousin but now that I'm older, I see her as a grown woman, no matter if she's a cousin or not. I realize that would be incest but I can't help see her as an attractive woman, ya know? I NEVER see her in person anymore for a couple reason 1 being that she lives in Texas 2. She rarely makes trips (she will be next month) and 3. She's maried. So she deals with the married life and rumor has it, she wants kids.
We text, just like any family member would but again, she's still an attractive woman, regardless of if she's an immediate cousin or not.
So, do you ever have difficulty looking at an attractive cousin, knowing you really probably can't do anything about it (incest, marriage, distance)
Most Helpful Girl
I did... my two cousins (around my age) who I never really see are really attractive. Every one in the family always tells them that when they visit which is rare. Whenever I would see them from the time I was in elementary to high school (I'm still in high school), I always had a teeny crush on them. It was as if I had a little girl crush on them.. it was embarrassing because I made it obvious even though I tried not to. They picked up on it and they would sort of flirt (keep in mind, I never flirted with them) with me but separately or when we were alone. I never acted on it thank goodness. I would have regreted it with all my life but I'm glad I dont see them anymore. It has given me time to think about how foolish I've been acting. Bottom line... they are your blood, your family. It's not okay to act on it. There's other people out there0
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Most Helpful Guy
lol! i have a distant cousin who had a crush on me in highschool!
she was my moms cousins daughter or something lol!
nah she never acted on it
i didn't either yuck!
i dont think its completely weird, to be like "Shes hot!" but it would be weird to fantasize about her and stuff1
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