It's a story. But he told me to "Fuck off" a few days ago. Today's his birthday. I'm not mad at him. Is it ok to text him Happy Birthday? If it is, should I add a message with it?
Most Helpful Guy
I think it depends on if it's something he said in a moment of temporary anger, or if it's something more serious. A few days ago is not very long. I'm not sure of the best thing, especially without knowing more. I have mixed feelings on this.
I think it won't hurt anything to tell him happy birthday. And maybe that will help patch things up. If he really is pissed long term, it won't really matter one way or the other. I don't think wishing happy birthday is clingy or anything like that. Maybe just do it and see how he reacts. Then it's his move.0
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Most Helpful Girl
just do a generic 'Happy birthday! x'0