Guys: if your girlfriend slept with another guy would you hate that guy?
Girls: if your boyfriend slept with another girl would you hate that girl?
- Yes. I would hate that person and hate my gf/bfVote A
- Yes. I would hate that person but not hate my gf/bfVote B
- No. I would only hate my gf/bfVote C
- No. I wouldn't hate either of themVote D
Most Helpful Guy
If the person knew she was in a relationship, yes.
If they didn't know, then no, I wouldn't.
I've read a couple of answers here (mostly from guys) saying that it isn't THEIR fault that the girl wants to cheat on her boyfriend, so magically, it's perfectly fine to sleep with the girl knowing she has a boyfriend and that their hands are magically absolved of any guilt.
Yes, you're right, it ISN'T their fault she chose to cheat. But it IS your fault for being a scumbag and willingly taking part in it and pretending like you are some innocent bystander.
Any guy who thinks this way, I seriously want to cave their face in with my fist. Fucking douchebag chump.
Same with any girl who thinks this way. I hate it when people try to deny self-accountability.3
Most Helpful Girl
It honestly depends on the nature of the situation. There are some people who are very much aware when someone has a significant other yet still willingly become a catalyst to that significant other's heartache for the sake of their own ego, desires, or sexual gratification. That is the type of situation which can plant hate into someone's heart. Although the "cheatee" didn't necessarily "owe" me (or said person in question) any loyalty, they still failed to be a decent human being by choosing to put someone in harm's way emotionally and mentally. So while I would try not to let hate into my heart. . . I can't guarantee that I wouldn't utilize my various resources to make them both regret the second they ever laid eyes on each other. :)0