I had a crush on one of my friends from church and found out yesterday that he has a girlfriend. A girl who looked exactly like him came to church with him and he kept hugging her and kissing her. At first I thought that might be his sister but then somebody asked about the relationship between these two and he said "no we are not sister and brother." Do you hug and kiss your cousins? There was another guy that I also liked but he got married in the summer as well in a top secret relationship that nobody ever had any clue existed. I had a dream a couple of months ago where I think God told me he does not care who I marry as long as this person is not uncaring or emotionally destructive but I believe that God will give me somebody who matches what I want even if he isn't adamant that it is one person as opposed to another.
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We're given free agency to create our own paths. If we ask him about a particular guy, he may show us if this person is good enough for us. For example, I had been talking to this guy and asked God to help me determine if this is a man I should continue with. Within that week, I started having negative feelings about the guy. The more I ignored those feelings, the worse it got. I believe that when called upon, he will help, but he doesn't set things up a certain way. There can be more than one person in the world who would be good for us.2