one of the things that has been holding me back from approaching pretty girls is i don't believe i am handsome enough for them, i always believe they will choose only the good looking guys.
i am not ugly but then it's probably nothing to write home about either, i am average height and kind of thin, kind of introvert, i guess i just don't give off that "protective" vibe that seems to be what women want.
anyway lately i am learning that women don't really care about men's face as long as you are not an eyesore?
that in terms of appearance things that women will fall for are things that you can improve, such as, hygiene, hair, facial expression, muscles, posture, and of course your personality, like confidence and dominance, relaxed vibe, fun etc.
(and height, but I can't change that so...)
just want to get an opinion if it is wise to tell myself to stop thinking girls care about my face and that i am good enough for them if i focus on improve those other things?
- Yes, you should tell yourself thatVote A
- No, girls care about your face quite a bitVote B