No, I don't and I really don't know how's that going to work out If I get married some day. I enjoy having the entire bed, I mean my entire queen sized bed, to myself far too much to share it.
Technically I don't mind. When I fall asleep I sometimes have my legs all spread out, but once I'm asleep I curl up and don't really take up much space. So there's plenty of room for another person in my bed.
It's just that, I have a hard time relaxing and falling asleep when I sleep in the same room as someone else. Like even if we don't share a bed. I don't know why, I just makes me sort of anxious. I don't know how I'm going to be able to share a bed with a partner either, without dying because of lack of sleep lol.
i actually dont mind, as long as they're ok with me moving around a lot lol. i share a double bed with my sis sometimes and it's ok but in the summer it SUCKS.
so yeah, husband requirements for sharing a bed: 1. tolerance of excessive movement 2. i may hit u by accident in my sleep. 3. ... I'm sorry. :P
My wife had restless leg syndrome. And at times it was REAL bad. When it was its worst I would have to sleep elsewhere, but usually nothing would drive me away! Movement? No big deal. Hit occasionally? Easy to get used to.
Forget getting married lol the real problem is when you have a husband, 2 kids and their stuffed animals and a cat that all want to climb in. Sometimes I just sneak off to the guestroom to be alone!
While I do enjoy sleeping alone in my big bed, I'll look forward to a time (when I am married) when I see my wife's face/smile as I drift off to sleep and wake up to it every morning.
As sharing I am a pretty static sleeper I stick to my side of the bed and sleep on the same side every night when there is another person or animal in the bed with me. But when I sleep alone I am all over the place haha.
Aren't you like 2ft tall? :P Right now I'm in a single bed and i have to sleep diagonal to fit. I think I'll be fine with sharing so long as it's at least king sized
For years i slept in my bed alone, now i can't wait to sleep next to my love. I go to sleep every night seeing her smile and waking up every morning with her smile again :) <3
I've never shared a bed with someone, but I slept on the couch with someone and boy was it uncomfortable because she fell asleep on me. Not being able to adjust much or switch sides I laid on because I'd thought I'd wake her up, then losing circulation in arm or legs. So fun!!!
It depends on the guy, but not wanting to share the bed could reasonably present issues in a marriage. I think that to be fair you would tell a guy about that before saying I Do.
I do like sharing the bed, cuddling with him, holding each other while we sleep.
I hate sleeping alone... We have a california king and most the time its me, my boyfriend, our two year old daughter (she wakes up in the morning and comes and sleeps wit us for a few hours) and our pitbull puppy that we must rescued. The second my boyfriend gets out of bed to smoke a cigarette at night i wake up because i'm afraid to be alone in such a huge bed xD
I don't really like sharing my bed with family members/relatives/friends etc because I don't see the point and it can be annoying and uncomfortable, but if I had a boyfriend, I sure as hell wouldn't mind sharing it with him 😛 Actually looking forward to sleeping together with someone special.
There are two sides to your theory - Have you ever being lying in bed and feeling lonely thinking "I would give my right arm for a cuddle right now". Sleeping with someone takes a bit of time to get used to but when it is good it is good and when it is bad, hope there is a spare room. Sleeping with someone is one of the things I miss about being in a relationship, the cuddles mainly.
Likewise I love having the entire king sized bed to myself :D but yes my daughter can at any point of time share or even take over anything from me :D <3
Haha I guess having someone there to hug will be nice... but when one turns around in bed the other will wake up so... that's a setback :o It would be a question of trying to get used :D
But I guess that the day you meet your prince on a white horse you'll be in for a hard choice :o Like "I love him <3 but he'll keep me awake :-( but I want those hugs <3 oh damn he'll kick me awake :o "
Queen bed is plenty big enough for two unless they are sprawling everywhere. Even then it's probably big enough.
Now the covers are a different story. No matter how big the covers are, they are going to end up on her side. I'm pretty sure it's the laws of physics or something.
I actually don't mind sharing the bed usually. I'm tiny, and I don't take up a lot of room. My friend and I shared the same bed on our Canada trip earlier in the summer, which was fine until she ended up on my half of the bed with an arm over my pillow. xD I'd enjoy sharing if it's with my boyfriend/husband... cuddles and all, ya know?
Just out of curiosity, is that a show stopper? If a guy wants to sleep with you (like the vast majority of Americans), that would disqualify him as the man in our life?
Oh, falling asleep in my boyfriend's arms is the best, and it's the best start to the day to wake up next to him and have him be the first thing I think about. If it doesn't work for you, more power to you, but I wouldn't give it up for the world.
Well cl... My bed is only made for one. So hop in if you like, but during the night one will probably kick the other out of the bed in his/her sleep xD
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