If he has a crush on me why doesn't he want to sleep with me?

Hello. I'm 16 and here's my situation. I found out that This guy I kinda like has a crush on me back so I was flirting with him and we made out then I tried to take off his clothes but he wouldn't let me and was all like "I don't want to have sex". Wtf?

  • He likes you
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  • He doesn't really like you
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And you are? I'm a GirlI'm a Guy

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Guys are also prone to want to wait. Not every guy wants sex every time. He likes you, but doesn't want sex, there maybe a number of reasons for it, but some could be:
    He's religious and is following his faith
    He feels that sex gets in the way of friendship and courtship and wants to take it slow
    He's afraid of pregnancy and didn't have birth control
    He's still recovering from a breakup, and just isn't ready yet
    He's still a virgin and is frightened of sex

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Most Helpful Girl

  • There could be a lot of reasons. Maybe the moment wasn't right. Like for example... a girl could really want to be she might not have shaved her legs... maybe something like that happened to him maybe he didn't trim down there or something. Or he could just want to wait for sex

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What Guys Said 3

  • Neither: he doesn't want to be *** in jail.

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  • That guy is much smarter then you. You are only 16!

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    • Lots of 16 year olds have sex

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    • I use condoms lmao

    • You know condoms aren't guaranteed to work, right? I believe that their effectiveness is only like 90%, and that is if and only if you use them properly.

  • He is not ready

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What Girls Said 5

  • you're only 16, he might not be ready for it or he feels uneasy about it. you guys will have plenty of time for that, and making out is very different from having sex. also did you have any form of protection?

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  • He likes you enough that he doesn't want to ruin things with you.

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  • Because he doesn't want to lol.
    Having crush doesn't necessarily mean he wants to sleep with you.

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  • is he the same age? he could be shy.

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  • Maybe he doesn't lust for you

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