Most Helpful Guy
Yes. It happens. Days where i feel pretty much pissed off and feel like crashing everyone who tries to talk to me... Days where i feel like i want to be left alone lol4
Most Helpful Girl
Meh, I can sense judgment but it doesn't bother me. If they're not someone who's opinion, presence, and intelligence I highly respect and admire then I don't care. They can judge me till their dying breath but if they are not family, friends, or someone whom I truly look up to, I can honestly say I won't give a sh*t. This is probably because I sincerely feel like judgments are just minute chatter... background noise to be drowned out by more significant, major messages. Those more significant, major messages being the moments where someone looks you in the eyes and you can feel their appreciation for you. When someone hold you closely. The protective stance of a pet you've nurtured. The relived tone of someone who's mind was complete and total chaos.
You just have to stay strong, positive, and never forget all the wonderful ways you have touched this world. You are not your mistakes, flaws, bad choices, or wrongdoings. There is so much more to you than your moments of weakness and the encounters where you fail to handle things a certain way. It's not like that person's judgments actually have the power to determine what you experience in life and what opportunities are accessible. Don't give judgment great magnitude. The second someone judges you, stop whatever you're doing, look yourself in the mirror, smile, and say "Thank you. I am so glad that _____" *insert comment which contradicts their judgment* :)2