For example I was out on Friday with a few friends and there were a few girls around I only talked to about 1 or 2 but anyway I feel like I'm non existent around my friends because I don't say anything because I don't know what to talk about and one question does being like that make you not approachable.
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I wouldn't say it makes you non existing but it is obviously going to make you less noticeable. People in general notice lively individuals. The loudest naturally just gets more attention. And yes... Coming across as very quiet can make you less approachable. It is difficult to read quiet people sometimes and that can scare some people away as they do not know if you are open to communication or not.2