Whenever I go out with more than 3 people I get really awkward but one of my two friends is bored to go out with just 3 people?

He always invites about 4 people and I get really awkward and my mood is ruined and I worry everyone there. I can't keep telling him that I can't go because of this and that, he's going to think that I don't want to hang out with him anymore and If I tell him what's bothering me he probably won't ever ask me to go out again. And I want to keep hanging out with him so what am I supossed to do?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • "He always invites about 4 people and I get really awkward and my mood is ruined and I worry everyone there. "

    ^i feel u... it gets really awkward and kinda boring as well if more than 3 people included... basically it's kinda confusin and u get lost since most of da times when i happened to be around more than 3 people i got lost and remained silent since i couldn't find a way to join their conv...

    "I can't keep telling him that I can't go because of this and that, he's going to think that I don't want to hang out with him anymore and If I tell him what's bothering me he probably won't ever ask me to go out again. "

    ^i believe u should... and he should know about how u feel when u r out wid more than 3 people... if he respects it fine... otherwise... u don't have to force yerself goin somewhere u don't like to be... don't u think so? ;)

    "And I want to keep hanging out with him so what am I supossed to do?"

    how about tellin...

    "i just want to hang out wid u. i feel really awkward in a group of more than 3 people (xplain yer reasons here). hope u understand"..

    :)

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Most Helpful Girl

  • just tell him how you feel!

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What Guys Said 1

  • You like him, and feel like other people are going to try and steal him away

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    • Nah, not even close. I just can't deal with people

    • I'm just sayin'

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