Before I switched my messaging settings on gag to private, there were some people that actually messaged me to tell me stuffs like I'm ugly etc. In school, the people were worse. They'd spread false rumors about me like how many guys I've slept with, what a boyfriend stealer I am and stupid shit.
I tried to ignore it. Then today, another person from school changed his/her Wi-Fi name to (my name) is ugly. Like wtf did I do -.- and I'm the only one with my name in the entire school.
I'd be lying if I say all these didn't somehow affected me in one way or another. I seriously cannot understand what do people get out of doing this? And why do they find the need to do it?
Most Helpful Guy
Oh my goodness, those things are shocking. And unfortunately, some people have lack of every form of (self) respect and find it nice to do these ridiculous things.
What you can consider is: first of all do NOT block these users. Blocking them is no solution since they'll than go anon and be back.
What you should do is, when you can identify the user, report that person. And again, and again. If people PM you and tell wrong things, report them for PM'ing since this will indicate to the admins something is wrong with that user.
Also with the WIFI thing, consider if there is for example a provider you could report that abuse to. They can do him harm by denying him access to their services.
I hope you can sort it out. Thumbs up :D1
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Most Helpful Girl
I feel you so much. Happens to me too. Mostly on GAG, but sometimes also in real life. I also get all those insult messages, bashing my looks and everything else that's bashable. I've also been called ugly, disgusting, a cripple and everything else in school and a boy even once wrote on my locker that I'm a slut, when in reality I don't dress provocatively at all and I haven't even kissed a guy. My point is, I fully understand how you're feeling. It's not a pleasant feeling, it sucks ass and breaks your soul a little everytime someone does something like that to you. And you start to doubt yourself.
Those people got issues, they need some serious help. They're pathetic, insecure, lame excuses of human beings that try to make themselves feel better by bringing others down. I almost feel bad for them, cause something horrid must have happened that made them that way. Some of them may be jealous cause they can clearly see that you're a better person than them in every aspect. They're immature and they need to grow the fuck up.
I'm sorry this is happening to you :( You are clearly beautiful af inside and out. I think you should just ignore them, not give them the time of the day, try to block out all the hate, and focus on people who make you feel good about yourself, all the positive shit. And I know very well that it's easier said than done, these things still affect me too sometimes. But you gotta try.1