Is it something that's hard wired or so you think it's flexible?
- It's flexibleVote A
- its hard wiredVote B
Most Helpful Girl
It's flexible. I feel like i can be both.0
Most Helpful Guy
I'd like to think of myself as an introvert that transformed into an extrovert. It takes constant work and change though i'd say. It doesn't come naturally like with other people.
I had build my own self confidence and train my social skills. It was a very complicated routine method but it worked for me.
The way i walk, the way i talk, the way i communicate (body language and verbal) all required my conscious mind to do so, my sub-conscious was of very little use because i believe that i was a born introvert.
I had to continuously act and think in a certain way for me to actually change myself. It's exactly like how people change their personalities. You continuously do something in a way or think in a way that it becomes engraved from your conscious mind to your subconscious.
My transformation resources came from books, experiences, mentoring that all talked about deep psychological sciences. Basically you can control to a certain extent of how you feel, how you act and react.1