I know this might not be something THAT serious but I just want this to stop. My guy bestfriend like EVERYDAY he waits by my locker and let me get my stuff out and carries it for me until I get to my classroom and then gives my stuff back and hugs me. He also walks with me to my bus with me and he doesn't even ride my bus. I know I might seem rude but it's just getting REALLY annoying. I keep telling him that he doesn't have to do this stuff but he's always like "Nah I'm good, I just want to show you that I'm a good friend". Also what else is really annoying is that people keep on asking us if we go out or if we're boyfriend or girlfriend and I'm getting tired of it. So should I tell the principal at my school about this? By the way, I don't even know this guy that well we only talk a few times but he's like my bestfriend, I think he still likes me because he asked me out like 2 times already and I said no. I know some of you might have heard me say that and I don't mind you answering again :)
Most Helpful Guy
You need to come out and just say it to him. You don't have to be rude about it but just say something like "I know you are trying to be helpful but I want to carry my own things and walk to places on my own". Then say "this does not mean we can't be friends, you can talk to me in class but I don't really want to be followed around." You need to just come out and say it if you want him to back off a bit.1
Most Helpful Girl
@Ashely_Princess, just saw this Now, and you may Not want to hear this here, dear, but You are The Only One who can make him stop, by Telling him straight Out... STOP.
Everyone, Every Elder, even when you are Out on your own someday, will not go to bat for you nor fight your battles here, dear.
Yes, a few times I have answered this for you, and sticking to my own guns the First few times, I am still Holding on to my Holster that you Need To Get... Bolder.
Tell him to please, stop all of this or you will be Forced, with a carrot over the horsie's nose to go to the.. Prncipal.
Good luck. x0
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