Would you be offended if someone said you look hot and was of the same sex and your straight? So some women said I looked sexy and was I interested well to be honest I was flattered and alittle hurt I felt flattered she found me attractive then thought do I look like I am not straight. So I said thanks and sorry I am straight and she was are you sure you don't want to try and I was like well no sorry and she left. Has this ever happened to you and what was your reaction?
Most Helpful Guy
It has happened to me before and I was flattered. When I was around 18 (and I actually did look quite hot back then, I also got a lot of female attention), a gay guy from school had this huuuuuge crush on me. He followed me everywhere and all his friends told me how much of crush he's got on me. What was also funny was that he wasn't just gay, he was your stereotypical "gay queen"... he was wearing girls' clothes and jewellery and he painted his nails... you get the idea. I kind of liked him as a person but I never really talked much to him. I decided to simply not react and see what's gonna happen. One day after school he finally came up to me and asked me out. I thought it was the cutest thing ever. I have never been asked out by anyone... I always had to make the first step with all my girlfriends. It felt like a great honor. I also thought he was very cute because he was clearly very nervous and I could tell that it took him a lot of courage to go ahead and do this. He told me that he finds me very kind and very hot. Very few girls have said this to me so far. Most of my girlfriends just said "I love you" and stuff like that but they never really told me explicitly WHAT they like about me. So yes, I was very flattered and it almost broke my heart to see him become sad when I had to tell him that I'm not into guys.6
Most Helpful Girl
yes that would offend me but mostly that would make me feel creeped out and unconfertable1