Things started off great. He initiated flirting said things like I'll be his girlfriend and I'll love him one day and sent me flowers. First I was standoffish because he made such an effort and I guess never been treated like that. I went and visited with him. He still treated me amazing well more like his girlfriend - dinners clothes calling me babe holding hands and kissing in public with friends etc even like saying move in and such like I'm never leaving. I left he said wasn't ready for anything. He doesn't trust and been cheated on from what my friend said. I sent a package to thank him he called me amazing and sent my my shoes I left. The note said miss ya in. Big letters. After Ieft we both made initiation but now I am usually all the time. not that I care but kinda want him to act like he did before. Should j give up on him or what? I really do like him and want something with him. Maybe got scared that I actually caught feelings so quick? Could distance be turning him frustrated? Or what
Keep trying, being there and initiating or give him up?
What Guys Said 1
I think you should give up and here is why, like you said, he likes the chase and that's it! He tried so hard to get you, over the top showmanship of interest, and then went all cold once you started showing interest back! His initiation and interest is all fake, it is a just a show.0
What Girls Said 1
its probably the distance,0
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