There is a guy who is always messing with me, he sometimes embarrasses me around other people or will just tease me a lot. He is driving me crazy, is it ok to kick him in the nuts because he won't stop even though I asked him to? And how long would a good hard kick to the nuts keep a guy down so I know? Let me know if it is ok or not.
Most Helpful Guy
Well lets put it this way... I am not a mean guy, I am very reasonable, and I control myself well. Most of my friends have only seen me get mad a couple times in my life. When I am mad I dont get physical unless someone else starts it. So for instance, at school one guy threw a brick through the window of my car, I confronted him and told him to pay me back, when he didn't I threatened to call the cops. We got into an argument, and he rushed at me. He threw a couple punches and then I beat the living sh*t out of him. I broke his nose, and basically took him down a couple levels. If a girl were to assault me in such a way, I would beat her up too. Guy or girl, it doesn't matter, if they hurt me I hurt them. Its really quite a simple situation, I can be talked with, I dont lose my mind until someone physically hurts me, if she can't control herself enough to talk it out then I am not going to control myself either. I dont care how "emotional" she is, that isn't an excuse for hurting me. At minimum she will walk out of there with a black eye, I dont mess around with that stuff. I gotta put her in her place and let her know that there are consequences to not controlling your anger.1
Most Helpful Girl
No. This shouldn't even be a question. I think it's extremely low to ever kick a guy in the nuts, I don't care what your reasoning behind it is. There are so many other options out there, and that shouldn't be one of them. It's bad enough you're asking, but the fact you want to do it hard enough that it keeps him down. It's messed up that you're even turning to violence because someone is bothering you.2