Not staring, obviously, but if he just glances down when he thinks you're not looking and is otherwise a decent guy - is it ever flattering or just annoying?
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sure it's flattering. On the odd occasion, it may be a bit too much when the guy flat out ogles, doesn't even try to hide it or look away when I 'catch' him. Most of the time though, if it's just a glance or not staring for 15+ seconds, I'm cool with it. It's not like I wouldn't look if guys were walking around with shirt off and six-packs all around either. :P0