Do you care if your boyfriend/girlfriend isn't a virgin?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Yes, i care. I'm a virgin and I'm saving it until i find the girl i KNOW i will be with for the rest of my life. It is scientfically proven that a special bond forms when someone loses their virginity. I believe that most marriages these days don't last because they lack that bond--since they already lost their virginity to someone, then married someone else.

    So yes, if a girl isn't a virgin, its a deal breaker.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • No, I actually don't. I don't care if I am his first, I just wanna be his last.

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What Guys Said 18

  • I care in the sense that if I could choose, Id like her to be one. Realistically there's not a lot of female virgins in my age range, so to make that a requirement that would really narrow down my dating pool. Then to find a virgin who is attractive and has a compatible personality, well that just makes it even less likely.

    So Ill just have to be content if she can still count her partners on one hand but nowadays even that might be unrealistic :/

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  • At no time in my life did I ever care if my girlfriend was a virgin.

    What does matter to me however, is her partners. If she has had a succession of abusive partners, then I would begin to suspect that she has emotional issues and that would make me cautious.

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  • It doesn't matter to me whether she's a virgin or not
    i never had actual sex with a girl cause it never happened
    i want girl who we both can truly love each other and sad
    to say none of my ex girlfriends loved me my last ex girlfriend
    tried forcing sex on me and threatened me that she was
    gong to have to play with herself if i didn't do it to her but
    i didn't give into the crazy woman glad i didn't I'm not being used
    when i give my heart and love a woman i really mean it ,

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    • A 47 year old male virgin? Where were you when the unicorns were running around?

  • At 46 it is highly unlikely - No seriously never bothered me.

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  • No, I do not. Never given any importance to it.

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  • ... isn't that the point?

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  • I don't care.. I just hope she was responsible in the past.

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  • Nope, not at all.

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  • I don't care at all in fact I know she isn't but I'm fine with that..

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  • Only if I am a radical Islamist.

    Virginity is over rated. Get rid of it as soon as you are 18.

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  • It doesn't bother me at all.

    Most people around my age aren't virgins anymore anyway.

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  • Yes, but only because I'm one. If I lose it I probably won't care any more.

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  • It has no relevance to me whatsoever..

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  • Why not. Love important

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  • its not a problem whether she is virgin or not

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  • ı think i do.

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  • Yes. Look at divorce rates based upon the number of partners someone has had -- all the evidence I need.

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  • If she is a western then no if she is from the middle east then yes

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What Girls Said 17

  • Couldn't care less tbh. If he's a virgin its easier to teach him how to do things properly (well the way I like it) than perhaps an "experienced" guy who may think he's doing it all right "totally" and he's so full of himself he thinks he doesn't need guidance 😂😒 But not all guys are like that...

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  • I'm indifferent, I'm ok either way.

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  • My boyfriend and I were both virgins when we got together. I don't think I'd have cared too much if he wasn't one, and I know for sure he wouldn't have cared if I wasn't.

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  • No, not really. As long as they haven't been whoring around to the point where they can't even remember how many people they had sex with, then I'm fine with it.

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  • As long as they haven't banged the whole village, nah I don't mind.

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  • No. I'm not a virgin so I can't expect a guy to be one. And I don't really want him to be. I wouldn't not date him if he is one tho.

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  • Yeah I do. If he dumped her, he will probably dump you too.

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  • As long as they're STI free and don't have any children, I don't care about their sexual history.

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  • Nah I don't mind

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  • No I'm not a virgin either

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  • No, I don't care about that

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  • as long as i love him, and he loves me, i dont care about him being a virgin or not :D

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  • I wouldn't care

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  • I don't really care either way.

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  • could care less.

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  • Idc... as long as he's clean and honest

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  • I don't care if he is virgin or not.

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