I'm the most loyal, nicest, I have a really good and kind heart, I'm a real and straightforward person, I'm honest, logical, I'm not one for drama, problems, troublemakers and crap. And all I've been to them is nice, loving, caring, honest, real, etc. But they talk shit about me and they go around spreading it, and they make themselves believe it and they make people who don't even know me believe all the shit. And now it's like they all hate me, and because of how they are to me I'm always suffering from depression and feeling worthless. I have no family or anyone. Several of them blocked me on Facebook and I blocked a few because of the drama. I've tried telling them that I really care, I don't want drama, problems, troublemakers and crap, I'm not that kind of person. I want things like peace, love, respect, and good with them. I don't know what's wrong with them or me, and I've even sent my mom texts saying she stopped caring and that makes her mad. She's totally changed with me and I was so close to her and I could talk to her about anything. My relationship with her was totally exceptional. And she was the only person who I can talk to like that. What's the deal? What do I do? etc.
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Its because your so kind and caring they are going to take advatage of you. Just because you walk around respecting everyone and being nice doesn't mean they are going to return the favor. You need to develop a switch. When you are dealing with shitheads you flip it one way and try to act like the biggest asswhole to them. When you are with people you like you switch it off and be yourself, that way you dont get taken advataged of and abused by people.0