He can't even attend the funeral. :( In addition to finding out his grandfather died this morning, he got in a bad car accident earlier today and totaled the car he worked hard for. I don't believe he's even finished paying it off :/ It was so bad they had to break the windows to get out. We're not together (at the moment) but I still instinctively feel the urge to nurtre him, get in the kitchen right now so that a meal will be tender and finished in the slow cooker by noon tomorrow, make him my homemade/all natural bruise/cut/scratch concauction, soak his feet in my foot spa bath thingy with peppermint oil, and cuddle him all night. *sighs* I finally got out of our cray cycle. He has no family here and has said numerous times I'm the closest thing he has to family/family like love. What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
Unless you're not going to hand him some money... a woman's vagina will be of no solution for what he's going through and I doubt a "meal" will do anything either.0
Most Helpful Girl
Daaaaaang. That's rough. I think that making something like a casserole or something else that's easy to heat up and MAYBE the salve if it's easy for you to make. Then toodle over with a get well card. That way you're still being supportive but don't have to BE THERE. He can have his space and work through things that way.
The whole idea is to be there without BEING there, you know?
I don't know How do YOU feel about it apart from wanting to be supportive?1
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