Are you supposed to be supportive and happy for your best friend if something good for them happens in their lives, even if your life at the moment sucks? And what you are feeling is actually more of a jealousy towards your bestie for having something good happening to them while you are still waiting for something good to happen in your own life?
Are you then a Bad friend if you can't be happy and supportive for them when you're feeling down yourself?
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The jealousy is a bad thing. I understand being in a down and somber mood and not being cheerful for your friend, but being jealous (the older sibling of envy) is a bad thing.
Jealousy can cause a friendship to rip apart.
In order for one to be happy, one has to be able to celebrate the successes of others.0