My grand ma's really ill and I know that she's gonna die. What do I do? I don't wanna feel anything when she dies.. :(
What can I do now that will lessen my future pain?
Most Helpful Guy
" I don't wanna feel anything when she dies.."
Be careful what you wish for. I was feeling the same way as you. I was with my grandmother a lot before she died. And when she passed, it was like I felt nothing. So then, instead of mourning her, I hating myself for being an emotionless bastard. Of course, I shouldn't have judged myself like that, but I think there is some value to feeling grief. At least you feel something.0
Most Helpful Girl
Spend your time with her, talk to her, make her laugh and smile as much as you can and keep letting you know you love her. When it finally happens, let her go surrounded by love.
If you were close with your grandma, I don't think there is much you can do. The sadness is just proof that you loved her and I think that's a good thing to hold on to. Maybe remember the good times and always let your loved ones know how much you love them.
I'm sorry about your grandma, I hope her days are filled with love and peace. :<1