I think I have become a bit antisocial. I am still nice towards other people thankfully. However, I notice a lot of situations out there and I think... how would I react if I was in such a situation. I don't like the amount of attention I will attract to myself.
I have never previously felt this way. Or if I did, I very well understood why... i. e foreing culture, or not having friends yet in the new place I was living. Once I had that... I was better off. I am mostly okay in one to one or even small group scenarios but I hate being the center of attention in a medium to large sized crowd.
I don't like this. I want to be comfortable in all situations and I believe I was / could have been (this one experienced has really thrown my life off).
I would like to get my self-confidence back.
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I'm very social and love talking with people, but I'm definitely better in a smaller group setting than large groups. If I'm in a large group, I'll often break off into the smaller ones rather than try to engage the entire big group. I don't have a loud voice that carries, and I think my personality just shines through better within a smaller group.
Also, I do have a point where I max out on the amount of socializing I'm willing to do. After that I need time to be by myself and sort of re-charge.
If you want to become more social, I would just engage in talking to people and being social in any social situation you find yourself in. Maybe just a few people at first, and then more and more. Step by step.1
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