I think I'm done having kids. From my stand point I don't think we will be together much longer although we've been together for ten years.
I mean I want other kids but in this relationship doesn't seem like it will ever work out
I'm debating getting surgery and he's just like "do what you want". is that all you want say to someone u want to be with forever?
Most Helpful Guy
He doesn't want to be seen as dictating or making you do something you don't want to do. I thought that would be a plus for you?
Moreover, your statement that " From my stand point I don't think we will be together much longer although we've been together for ten years," is just so telling.
Gee, what do your children think about you cutting their (step) father loose, especially if he has spent years caring for them?
And if you don't care enough to stay with him, why do you expect him to care about your surgery?0
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Most Helpful Girl
He doesn't want to force you into making a decision you may regret, that's why he's telling you to do whatever makes you feel comfortable. It's up to you.0