I noticed that I am a boring person. I am not passionate about anything and I don't have any hobbies.
Whenever I get to know new people, I fear that they might think I am boring.
how can I stop being so boring? Any tips?
Most Helpful Guy
I can relate to that feeling perfectly fine considering i'm in the same boat, as such I can only give theoretical advice and I'm not out of the frying pan yet.
There are two things to consider:
- That your self-esteem is most likely low, which makes you less likely to focus on ANY positive quality you have: people would ask you "list some positive qualities about yourself" and you would have zero clue! Putting yourself down and thinking you're boring will just immobilize you rather than help you. You are most likely not as "boring" as you think.
- That while your standards for yourself might be too high, there might still be truth to why you think others will perceive you as "boring": which is why you'd have to find things to do, invest time in things you like (rather than just stick around on GAG especially if you aren't proud of it and wouldn't mention it to anyone in real life) and what truly helps is having friends who do engage in social activity and get them to invite you (and be on the look-out for things to where you can invite friends as well).
Most people gather their information from other people they know. You don't just sit around at home and begin to know everything, even if you could watch a bunch of videos on WikiHow and finish online tutorial courses and practice alone.
So technically the proper solution is to find groups who are doing some kind of activity to which you can join in, while also seeking self-improvement on your own (learn how to cook for example, that's a useful skill).
Read this: www.cci.health.wa.gov.au/.../infopax.cfm1
Most Helpful Girl
Find something you enjoy, trust me I know what your feeling.
I enjoyed softball , drawing, anime, comic storylines, studio ghibli, Disney movies from out age when there was actual music (I'm obsessed with musicals) I liked all that. Made some choices then I just dropped it all.
And now I feel boring
I don't think your boring , you may have just forgot about the things you use to enjoy. If you have to go back to when you where a kid and start with finger painting I say do it. You just temporarily lost yourself it happens7