I will make this as short as possible but PLEASE PLEASE read it all because it is serious:
We go to the same university. however, While I live in school residence, she lives a bit far away at her UNCLE'S house. and that UNCLE is the problem. He controls her life. He does not allow her to leave the house except for university, he does not allow her to even make friends with boys. he wants her to be a nurse, but she does not want that. he checks her phone everyday, her messages, her photos.. etc. he is extremely rude to her and always calling her a "failure". he does not allow her to lock her bedroom door. when she takes a long time in the bathroom, he shouts and scolds her for that. on the weekends he takes away her phone because according to him "she doesn't need it during the weekends". Basically, she is being tortured. And When her parents call her uncle to ask about her, her uncle says "she never studies, she never helps me with anything, she is so spoiled.. etc." while she is the opposite of that. She is very hardworking, wise, and helps him with every single thing he asks for.
Now, you might say, why does not my friend tell her parents the truth about her uncle? well, her mom is helpless.. she cannot do anything about it. And her dad will never listen to her, he always takes her uncle's side.
How can I help her?
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I don't have a solution for you, but she sure is lucky to have a friend like you sticking by her! It's so hard to keep friends when you're in a situation like that.0