How would you feel if your SO turned gay?

I noticed that many women would feel completely distraught. If so why?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • This has happened to me. I was happy for him.

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    • You were happy for him, did you feel a little betrayed? Hurt?

    • Not really. Didn't like him all that much. High school boyfriend.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I'd be pretty angry since we spent money on a wedding, had a kid and bought a house all for it to come crashing down. but I'd also be somewhat happy that they weren't living a lie.

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What Girls Said 8

  • Because people don't just turn gay - it'd mean he's been gay all along and our whole relationship was a lie.

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  • It's okay, we'd just have to end the relationship obviously since that means he's only into dudes.

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  • Pretty upset because it means he won't want to be with me.

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  • My SO already is gay, else she wouldn't be my SO

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  • I'm not sure if I'd be distraught from the rejection or if him being gay would have an additional bearing.

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  • Traumatized, disgusted and mad!

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    • So you would be distraught.

    • Yeah he would of lost my time and energy... but I doubt it will ever happen because the kind of men I'm attracted to aren't into homosexuality at all..

  • "turn?" as far as I know, I don't think people just suddenly "become" gay..

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  • You can't turn gay.

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    • You can turn OUT to be gay, and that's what he's referring to here.

What Guys Said 7

  • We'll, I'd hate to lose her, but I also understand some people need to try each side of the fence to know what they want and like. I would probably take a break and let her explore this side and if she wanted me back, no problem.

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  • I'd think she was gay already before she met me or she was at least curious about girls. It doesn't happen suddenly in my opinion.

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  • You don't just turn gay. But if my girlfriend/wife came out as a lesbian, I would feel so heartbroken.

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  • So she's bi?
    Me: "Three way or nah?"

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  • That sounds messed up. I would dump her and I will not have any interest in being friends.

    But I don't need to worry about that because I do not date girls who are confused of their sexualities nor ones who just want to experiment with me.

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  • I'd probably feel hurt and quite annoyed at her for leading me on like that.

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  • You can't turn gay. You either are or aren't.

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