I was asking her if my crush's girlfriend was pretty, and she said, 'Don't get mad, sorry, but yeah she kind of is.'
I think she definitely could have said it much more tactfully. Plus she didn't look particularly guilty saying it.
She added that up with, 'It looks like this guy doesn't like you at all.'
I was feeling vulnerable and decided to tell her. It bothered me that people preferred her over me, including this boy. I was concerned if he'd marry her.
That was not a sensitive way to handle the situation or remotely respectful. A good way to encourage a friend is to say, 'You're so much better than him. He's not worth it,' not to blatantly lie but to remind a friend about their good qualities.
I no longer consider this girl my friend.
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u could take this as her being bitchy or her being blunt. it depends on where u think her intentions lie because u know her better than us.
sometimes friends will give us a bit of painful truth to help us come to our senses, or they can get totally shady for their own reasons, in which case id question the friendship. that's up to u to decide0