A person says "you look good, for a black person" You'd think, well, are blacks ugly or something, usually, right?
Well, how is that any different than
a girl saying to another girl "you're pretty for a girl, but, I'd never date you".
I mean, really?
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In the first case, the mention of his race was irrelevant. You could've just said he looked good. By mentioning his race you make it seem that all the other members of that race are unattractive.
In the second case, while the mention of gender doesn't seem that necessary, it could be included because the person speaking isn't into girls and the girl in question could be. So she could be saying that while I find you attractive even tho you're a girl, I couldn't date you because I'm into guys.0
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