I have scars from selfharm and I hide them from people because I don't want them to know so if I were to go out with a guy will it make him not like me and think I'm weak and I know he's going to find out sooner or later so when should I tell him.
Most Helpful Guy
The ones who genuinely care for you will stick around the rest don't matter.1
Most Helpful Girl
It shouldn't. A guy who truly loves you won't care about your scars!
Also, the fact you've made it through and stopped self harming shows great strength, not weakness.
Be proud of your body! Your scars are a reminder of the tough times you've had and you should use them to empower yourself. You've grown, you're not the same girl you were then. Any good man will understand if they love you and listen to your story about them.1