Having babies solves everything?

If there are problems in a marriage, including trust or the guy is a player. A baby will _____everything

Or add you're own word

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Very very veeeeery rarely helps. Like 5% chance.
    Not wort it. Do not get pregnante from that man.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • That would ruin everything.

    Reason is because a baby would add more stress to the marriage. So they need to work on their own issues first before trying to have kids at all.

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What Guys Said 14

  • as for your condition regarding trust or a guy or girl who is a player a baby will only exacerbate issues as there foundation of the relationship is not strong enough to endure the things needed to raise a child (which include but are not limited to trust, faith, loyalty, clear communication, respect, etc)

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  • A baby is the last thing you want to introduce to a bad situation.

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  • Unless the problem in the marriage was that you couldn't have kids, having kids will ALWAYS make it worse. If having a baby was a magic fix for rocky relationships, there wouldn't be so many single parents.

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  • I would say "not solve anything, but make it worse and much more complicated".

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  • A baby is not a panacea. The problems will continue to exist and may even make things worse. Now you are subjecting another brand new human life to your drama

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  • A baby will not solve everything. it is not like if two people are falling out of love will necessarily be in love just because of a child.

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  • having a baby isn´t a solution. it´s result of not needing a solution (in an ideal world).

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  • A baby will shit on everything

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  • I would say that children stress solid relationships and ruin weak ones.

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  • not resolve outstanding issues, and possibly bring the child into a broken relationship!

    If the relationship is on the rocks then why bring a child into the picture, that is selfish!

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  • Complicate.

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  • Clearly you haven't watched enough Maury lol

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  • Say good-bye to your sex life when you have a kid.

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What Girls Said 9

  • Children make happy relationships happier.
    Children make stressed relationships worse.

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  • More like you immature adults would ruin an innocent child's life.

    Pffffft "solving problems in a marriage by cheating a child"... Why don't you try couple's therapy? Cheaper than a child. Or psyvhotherapy for who ever thinks this is a good idea because he or she clearly has issues and should not be allowed to have kids until these issues are resolved

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  • It NEVER ties a man down, it just makes him have a better reason to go out and knock someone else while you're busy being pregnant. Then once the baby comes, you WILL NOT have 5 seconds to yourself to even touch a tube of lipstick. Unless that man is fully on board and happy about a baby, don't ever think that having one will change him.

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    • What if you're married to him?

    • Same thing. If the guy isn't ready, no trap is going to change him.

  • Only cause more of a problem. Don't make a confusing situation more complex!

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  • Definitely won't solve anything.

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  • It won't solve the problems of a rocky marriage, it would make things much more complicated for both the couple and the poor child brought into the middle of it. For a dull marriage, it can breathe life and purpose into it and kinda boost it into something better than it would've been otherwise. My parents fall under the latter.

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  • Kids just make it harder to walk away. If things are already bad, having children will only make everyone involved suffer until the family is ripped apart.

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  • I think having kids stresses any relationship, even when the party involved is wealthy, even when they are already happy together. It puts the marriage to the test

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  • Children amplify the problems in a relationship. If you have a good one, you'll be able to overcome them together. However, if your relationship is already shaky, the stress of a child will tear you apart.

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