if i want a great guy do i need to "shapen up" a bit?
I mean i think im cute, im not super attractive or anything, but without really making an effort i think i look good.
But dating wise things doesn't go too well.. and i know todays standars are really high and i also know guys are visable. So i considered starting wearing a lot of makeup, using extentions of some sort, diet so i become skinny and dress to impress basically..
Guys say they prefer the naturel look, but i see women that use tons of makeup, hvae fake hair etc get approached a lot and have boyfriends etc.
Yeah, i know other things plays a role too, like personality, the way he girl holds herself etc... but i dont know the naturel look works anymore.. i dont think i need makeup, but maybe im the only one..
So should "fix" my looks or what?
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My advice don't change to be one of the sheep. Women with too much fake everything tend to be approached for sex. There's nothing wrong with doing natural looking make up to enhance your already pretty face. Find a style that suits you and you're comfortable with. I find I'm quite dark skinned with really large eyes so when I wear liquid eye liner over eyeshadow I look like a goth or a guy trying to look like a girl. When I wear it under a nice golden bronze colour it highlights my eyes because it enhances my eyelashes and not the size. I wear quite natural shades daily and I think I look ok. Don't go excessive dieting But it's no harm to eat sensibly and exercise a bit. It really is all about confidence and being assertive. Some girls look like hard work and high maintenance some are happy with their natural beauty. Find your own ground before you look like everyone else. As for extensions and fake eyelashes nails etc and huge brows just go with your own natural way and enhance what you feel lacking. If you want long hair let it grow out but have fun with the style you have. Short nails with a nice shade or a few different shades look a lot nicer than talons :) Google some ideas on natural beauty and you'll find the best for you0