I've been here for more than a year and I keep seeing the same type of stuff, people that say things and believe in stuff that is far from what reality is.
"You'll find someone that will like you no matter what". Bullshit, if you're a bitch no one's gonna like you.
"Be yourself". Bullshit, liars get what they want.
"Everyone's beautiful". Bullshit.
In my life, I've experienced exactly the opposite of what most people on here say. When I was a young teenager I was a player/liar and someone different than who I really was, and I got everything: the girls, the friends, the respect...
So no, life is not a fairy tale like most people in here try to make it look like. Life's a bitch, and if you're not a bitch too, you're gonna get fucked.
I know some people will disagree and say stuff, but I also know many others will agree.
Do you agree, or disagree, both with my initial question and what I said afterwards?
Most Helpful Girl
I think GaG is like a big fantasy world for some users, I definitely agree. Somewhere they can come to sort of escape from their lack of success with the opposite sex, or possible heartbreak in real life. There's a lot of ass-kissing that goes on here, which doesn't help the matter.
To the countless questions saying 'Will I ever find someone?/Boyfriend broke up with me- forever alone?', there are just as many users who flock in and reassure them that their mr./mrs. right will find them sooner than later. Giving a false sense of hope.
Of course everyone is capable of fining someone for themselves, but the way I see it go back and forth on here, leaves many thinking that they can just sit back and do nothing, that the right person will seek them out & woo them with no limits. :/5
Most Helpful Guy
Not just on gag but real life too.
The biggest fairy tale that people believe in is that looks don't matter.
They always post questions like, "girls, what would you prefer hot guy with shitty personality or ugly guy with amazing personality"
Now most girls will vote neither but in real life, they never have to make that choice.
The more realistic choice is Hot guy with average personality vs Average looking guy with great personality and in my opinion the hot guy with the average personality will do way better. Hell get a lot more sex and he'll get it sooner and with less effort.
Being attractive also makes people see your personality traits as being better than they actually are. So if you're hot, it could make your average personality initially be perceived as slightly better than it really is. This is often called the halo effect.
Looks don't matter is the biggest lie ever told.
The main reason why you were successful as a player isn't just because you were willing to lie, but because you're tall, good looking, and likely have decent social skills.
Looks, confidence, and social skills are, by far, the three most important traits when it comes to attracting girls and getting easy sex.
Intelligence, integrity, honestly, being successful mainly only help when girls are looking to settle down. Those traits don't get you laid when you're young, they dont make girls lust after you, and they dont get you sex on the first date.
there's a lot of guys who believe "being nice" will get you laid and that looks don't matter. They need a serious wakeup call.1