We don't do anything around her or in front of her for her to think that would ever be okay... Can anyone explain?
Most Helpful Guy
She needs a mother figure in her life. You are that lady, certainly the closest thing to it. Take it as a great compliment from a kiddie! She feels safe with you around. It's nothing to do with what you and him do. It's how she sees the world through the eyes of a six year old. Her dad, plus a lady = dad and mum!!0
Most Helpful Girl
I don't know, but consider this: she may not understand what's going on now at age 6... but she sure as hell is going to look back and understand when she's older.
I was in the same shoes as you. The guy had 2 little boys. Looking back, I really regret thinking it was okay to be friends with benefits with someone who had kids who witnessed these girls coming over to their house all the time. friends with benefits is a hollywood myth that's best to leave alone. Stick to a vibrator, dildo or 1 night stands (with condoms). That's the best way to prevent strings attached or running into complications.2
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