I had not realized what i did and how awkward this could've been.
I've liked this guy for a while now. It started as a small crush at work. no big deal, just a distraction. we would play fight at work all the time. we always make eachother laugh. he's always teasing me, and i do the same to him, but in the past month, he started getting closer physically.
Im 23 and he just turned 21 and my best friend and i who also works with us wanted to do something special for him. everything we tried went wrong. especially for me. but we decided to throw him a party. only 2 people from work came and a few of his friends. so we made the best of it. it was supposed to be just us and all the people who invited themselves bailed.
My friend kept dropping hints about how it was mostly my idea to do this. She was also picking on me saying that when people are mean to someone it means they like them. i blush easily but i know i was pink the whole night. i was nervous. i didn't think he was paying attention to me but i caught him looking at me a lot, and he kept laughing at all i did, he would watch me smile. i felt awkward. at the end of the night, my friend said she is sorry it didn't turn out the way we expected. He said it was awesome and he said it was great because he got to see me drunk. (i was actually behaving compared to how i normally am drunk. im just more blunt). we all hugged and when we hugged for the first time ever, he rested his chin on my hair and said thank you. since he doesn't have my number he texted my friend to thank her again and to let me know we are amazing.
i hadn't thought about all this but we went out of our way for him big time. even that day was horrible for me. i looked horrible. i didn't have time to do my hair or makeup. i did the best i could.
now im wondering if i did too much, or if this will help me win him over. or maybe friends do this for friends? i dont do this for anyone but I don't know if he knows that. is it weird that i did that?
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The problem now is seems like he doesn't like you as much as you've liked him. And you're developing a ''fantasy'' thinking that someday he will like you back.
Think of the reality, does he put in effort to get your number personally? Does he asking you out? NO. It's better to not put yourself in this situation. It sucks1