Most Helpful Guy
He just got divorced! Why the fuck is he jumping into another marriage?1
Most Helpful Girl
They say "when you know, you know" but... then let's be real now.
When I was 14 I met my now boyfriend and I knew. I was like, "That right there is the man I'm going to marry." He was 12. Would it have made sense for us to get married then? No. I don't need to tell you why haha I'm sure you can figure it out.
We're now four years into a relationship and we are planning a wedding for 2018. We take things like super hella slow apparently. And we knew from date 1 that that was it. We were each other's "one". It's corny as hell haha
But how can you even begin to say you know someone after 3 months? I learn new things about my boyfriend almost every day. And we're 4 years in. What if your guy has an issue with Thanksgiving? What if something tragic happened to him in March and he gets angry and reclusive? What if he loses his job and becomes aggressive? What if he loses his cool in the winter and has SADD? What if what if what if?
Don't be getting engaged until at least a year of dating. Have to know what you're dealing with 365 days a year otherwise you might be in for an unpleasant surprise.4