Why? I was fat bullied to the point of crying everyday lost weight in a very unhealthy way, was the sexiest shit ever, didn't want to sleep with one guy, spread lies about me, was bullied again even in groupchats from everyone and again crying my eyes out even when I was just joking around I was bullied for it because I was just the girl u could use and gossip about, not popular but treated as a sexdoll, not physically ugly or not good enough but still bullied and I don't wish that to happen to anyone it was the worst part in my life
Most Helpful Guy
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
If there are patterns repeating in life, it is safe to say that you are part of the reason for why. In your case it is the bullying. You have to understand that obese people generally aren't bullied so much because they are obese, but much rather because they are the weak link in the hierachy where the bullies can pick at in order to raise and feel better themselves.
Now it is great that you lost weight - big props to you - but the initial problem of you being clearly lacking strength in your own foundation makes you still the victim of bullying no matter how you look like. Thus if you want to improve upon it, you will need to work on your inner foundation of strength.0
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Most Helpful Girl
Some people are nasty and rude.
You have to develop a thick coat of skin in this life.
I was bullied right until I got out of high school.
I decided not to let bullies rule my life.
I developed a tough exterior , not caring about the negatives people have to say about me.
Bullying allowed me to grow closer to myself.
It allowed me to love my imperfections, and the great things I have to offer.
You have to learn to let what people say roll off of your shoulders.
If you take each and every negative comment to heart, you will always
be down in life.
Through every aspect you will find different sets of people that try to break down your character.
If you don't have your defense mechanism up... you will get scarred.
I'm not saying be mean to people.
I'm saying learn to brush it off, and move on.
Don't dwell on what was said, instead look past it.
If I cried about what each and every person said about me, I'd be swimming in a pool of my own tears.
Don't let that be you!
Do not allow what someone else says to dictate how you handle your future.0