@Paris13 , @smahala1991 , @RicanEyes , @scuff1986 can you answer this one as well :)
Most Helpful Guy
Don't feel you are alone with this. Guys and girls at your age are learning about the other gender and most people at your age feel the way you feel. The way to gain confidence to talk to a guy is actually by talking to them more often. Start off small, for example start saying "Hi" or "Good morning" to a guy you like each morning. Then when you have got comfortable doing this without any problems build on it and maybe ask him how he is etc etc. Confidence to talk to guys will come to you bit by bit. Remember most guys are pretty open and want to talk to girls.1
Most Helpful Girl
You are still young yet, @Ashely_Princess, and it is a difficult time of your life, where it happens to many teens who have strife in their life, having Problems... Being confident in talking to a guy.
You are this shy girl and there are some people who you can talk to with no big deal and Others it is a Really a Big Feel because when you are attracted to them, you lose sight of what you want to say.
It's always just good to keep it in your head to tell yourself that being friends from the Start and in your Heart, makes it Easier to Begin your Beguine. Getting to know them, treating them like any boy or girl, may help in feeling comfy with getting to know them better and being able to talk to them Much Better.
You say you are comfy with talking to your "EX" and even now, above anyone, it is this way somehow. This is because he has always been a friend that you have known for awhile and shared even a smile with, and bear in mind, down the love line, if it happens with Him, it can happen even with a coy boy.
Good luck. xx1
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