Gagers, how can I be confident to talk to a guy D: ?

@Paris13 , @smahala1991 , @RicanEyes , @scuff1986 can you answer this one as well :)

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@Applefan1 sorry for not mentioning you buddy :)

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Don't feel you are alone with this. Guys and girls at your age are learning about the other gender and most people at your age feel the way you feel. The way to gain confidence to talk to a guy is actually by talking to them more often. Start off small, for example start saying "Hi" or "Good morning" to a guy you like each morning. Then when you have got comfortable doing this without any problems build on it and maybe ask him how he is etc etc. Confidence to talk to guys will come to you bit by bit. Remember most guys are pretty open and want to talk to girls.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • You are still young yet, @Ashely_Princess, and it is a difficult time of your life, where it happens to many teens who have strife in their life, having Problems... Being confident in talking to a guy.
    You are this shy girl and there are some people who you can talk to with no big deal and Others it is a Really a Big Feel because when you are attracted to them, you lose sight of what you want to say.
    It's always just good to keep it in your head to tell yourself that being friends from the Start and in your Heart, makes it Easier to Begin your Beguine. Getting to know them, treating them like any boy or girl, may help in feeling comfy with getting to know them better and being able to talk to them Much Better.
    You say you are comfy with talking to your "EX" and even now, above anyone, it is this way somehow. This is because he has always been a friend that you have known for awhile and shared even a smile with, and bear in mind, down the love line, if it happens with Him, it can happen even with a coy boy.
    Good luck. xx

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    • Thanks @Paris13

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    • Thank you for the upvote. xxoo

    • Thank you, @Ashely_Princess for your Vote of Confidence in me again. xxoo

What Guys Said 4

  • By talking to guys more often

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  • just starting talking to them, try and find common interests as that will help

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  • Approach guys and the job is done.
    If you are successful, then you succeeded, if you fail and it ends in disaster! Boys find it too cute. And when you are about to turn and go to marinate In shame, they will follow you, if guys is single and likes you.
    It's very easy. It's like stepping blindly.
    It's not rocket science, it's like making a sandwich, 2 loafs of bread and stuff random things in between.

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    • Thanks for the advice

  • Older and or ugly does not always mean wiser. Fake being confident until you believe it. Life is too short to not take risks. Be you have fun.

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    • Not a problem. Always know we all have a short set of time and we may have nothing else. If so seize the day.

What Girls Said 3

  • Confidence starts from within. If your motive for wanting to gain confidence is to improve your relationship with someone, your heart isn't in the right place. You need to want to do this for yourself because you want to improve the way you feel about yourself. How it affects your relationships (such as by improving how often/easily you talk to the opposite gender) should be merely a bonus point.

    You need to focus on yourself and ensure that you do what makes you happy regardless of how embarrassing it may be or nerve-wracking. Self-love is extremely important because if failed attempts at being sociable occur, without self-love you will get disheartened and worst, think that it's somehow your fault when it completely isn't. Always remember: you've got nothing to lose. I truly think that people take this for granted so much! They think that if they don't do something properly, it all goes to hell. But if you did that something because it was what made you happy in that moment, how can it be such a hellish thing if it doesn't work out? If it doesn't work out with this guy, it will work out with another. So really, this is more of a matter of just not caring about rejection or failure and being yourself. You want to talk to him? Talk to him! Don't rehearse the conversation in your head or overthink it, just do it! You've got nothing to lose, only something to miss if you decide not to talk to him. :)

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  • I don't know try to be excited or have fun when trying to talk to a guy.

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  • Dont freak yourself out. Think of it as just talking to any of your friends.

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