This guy was hitting on my girlfriend and I asked him to leave her alone and he persisted and started harassing us..
So short of leaving, he kind of forced us in to an altercation which ended up with his much bigger friend getting involved and physical.
It wasn't much of a fight before he grabbed me by the throat and pushed me against a wall and lifted me off the ground. He was too close to me to knee or kick.
I tried hitting him in the face a couple of times but it was difficult because he was squeezing my throat and I couldn't breathe.
It wasn't long before I passed out.
I woke up sitting on the ground leaning against a wall with people around me telling me everything is okay I passed out, drink this water.
Anyway my girlfriend saw this guy man handle me. I feel very weird, like I can't protect her and I've let her down as a man.
I feel a little awkward towards her now that she's seen that.
Should I talk to her about it or move on? I don't know what to do.
My face is seen in the video. :(
Someone posted it and # my name to it on facebook.
Sometimes technology really screws us.
I wanted to say, Why didn't you go get a bouncer's attention? Why didn't you run for safety? No, instead you thought it was beneficial to stand and watch your boyfriend get man handled at the mercy of this other guy. BITCH!
Most Helpful Girl
You tried to protect her. And even though you failed, you still tried! And that will get noticed in the long run. The guy was much bigger and in my opinion nothing but a loser. He knowingly hit on a taken woman with her boyfriend right there. That's pathetic. If you feel ashamed about it, talk to her. It will take some weight off your shoulders. But if I was in you and your girlfriends position with my boyfriend I would expect it to be brought up.4
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Most Helpful Guy
Bring your hands up in the center (see Wing Chun), between his arms, grab his face and push your thumbs into his eyes. You will be dropped; don't let go. Start walking forward. End of fight.
Seriously, start taking kung fu. It will change you in so, so, many ways. Study both northern and southern styles -- they compliment each other well.
You will never have spent money better.
That being said, your girlfriend was probably both impressed and disappointed. Just apologize for being unable to protect her, and she will understand your shame, and it will put her in the position of consoling you -- that is if she isn't about to leave you.1