so im a place right now where im not studying what i really wanted to study (but have to finish the semester) and i dont have friends that has the same interest in me. I have tried to eb mroe social, joing a volunteer group and even thought everyone i meet are very nice and stuff, i have problems connecting with them and making close friends.
So for a really long time i felt like a loser, like it was something wrong with me since nobody seemed to want to be my friend.. And i got a bi depressed.
I tol my sister about how i felt and she told me that i was a very "self harming" and negative way to think and that i have to conisder other factors too.. Its nots JUST my fault that i dont connect with people.. i can't control how other people are or think etc. She also said that i should just think that this is ust temporary, i had soem bad luck, but it is going to get better when i start a study i want to study where i can meet likminded people.
And eveyrthing she says make sense, and i dont feel as bad as i did.. But i still feel a bit embarassed by the fact that the only close friend i made is a 27 year old i have nothing in common with, that is also starting to annoy me lol
A part of me is really affraid i won't make new friends and that i'll be a loner for ever.. any advice?
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