Hello everyone, I need some help and I have no where else to turn to. *PLEASE DON'T JUDGE OR SAY MEAN THINGS, IT TOOK A LOT TO TALK ABOUT THIS*
So I am having this MAJOR paranoia problem about getting pregnant (I'm only 16 almost 17, and I had a HORRIBLE sex ed teacher in middle school and we don't have sex ed in high school). Ever since me and my boyfriend of almost 9 months started dating, we have been SUPER careful about doing things that could result in pregnancy. We do have oral and dry sex, but we have never had real sex. I am on the pill as well, so I know that it should calm me down a little.
I am so paranoid all month that I am pregnant, almost every month even if I do get my period (they are normally short and light because of the birth control). Like when I see my heart beat in my stomach (idnk if it's normal or not but I am kinda skinny) or if I start to feel sick any time of the day, I automatically think I am pregnant. Like last month was the last time me and my boyfriend had dry sex and he didn't ejaculate, yet I was STILL parinoid!!!
Someone please help me, this is driving me crazy. Does anyone else have stuff like this or am I just crazy? please I'm begging you guys please help me.
Thank you xxxxx
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I sometimes have these similar paranoia issues when it comes to pregnancy. If you haven't had sex you have like a 1% chance of getting pregnant, and when you do take that step I suggest using condoms as well as that makes me personally feel a lot safer than just being on the pill. Just remember these and try and reason with yourself. See if your boyfriend will help you too.
By the way, feeling your heart beat in your stomach is normal. I used to be freaked out about it too.1
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